File a Complaint tricks [by: Mini Tangas]
In relationships between men and women often found that just because the wrong words it can disrupt an accidental relationship. There is a saying that the tongue is sharper than the sword. Turned out to be true if we are not careful in saying something.
Men and women have different speaking styles. Men prefer to talk logically, about politics, business, cars, sports, and other things that represent his manhood. In contrast to women who are the subject of children ranges, gossip, cooking, and heart complaints and more involved feeling. Sometimes they may be each other less interested in the topics being discussed by the partners.
As men, they want to be seen as a problem solver, so that often when a woman complaining to a man sounding woman asked for help from him. Begin to provide solutions to man laments his partner. At that time she was not looking for a solution to what is complain, he just needed a friend to listen without comment. As a result of advice or suggestions from the woman the couple became more upset.
How true communication between two people of different creatures and nature of these characters so that they get satisfaction?
Communication is a bridge of love between men and women. Women must be clever-clever in saying that not misunderstood by men. Like the phrase "You do not understand" that the woman was actually meaning "You do not understand that I currently do not require completion."
Meanwhile, in the words of the man's ears as punishment stating he was not able to overcome the problem mate. It would be better if before telling her laments a woman says "Right now I just want to share my feelings. This would make me feel better. "By the sentence of a man is ready to listen without feeling frustrated because she can not help solve the problem.
Do not forget to say thank you to your partner because he has been pleased to spend time to listen to your complaints. Appreciation to him for the difficult things he had done (listening without comment or hearing negative feedback from her partner) would make him feel happy and he would be willing to do it again on another occasion.
Be careful in the use of words and tone of voice, especially when communicating with a partner, because the same sentence when spoken with different tones will give a different meaning. Do not reached the bridge of communication between the two of you cut off just because a word is translated differently.
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In relationships between men and women often found that just because the wrong words it can disrupt an accidental relationship. There is a saying that the tongue is sharper than the sword. Turned out to be true if we are not careful in saying something.
Men and women have different speaking styles. Men prefer to talk logically, about politics, business, cars, sports, and other things that represent his manhood. In contrast to women who are the subject of children ranges, gossip, cooking, and heart complaints and more involved feeling. Sometimes they may be each other less interested in the topics being discussed by the partners.
As men, they want to be seen as a problem solver, so that often when a woman complaining to a man sounding woman asked for help from him. Begin to provide solutions to man laments his partner. At that time she was not looking for a solution to what is complain, he just needed a friend to listen without comment. As a result of advice or suggestions from the woman the couple became more upset.
How true communication between two people of different creatures and nature of these characters so that they get satisfaction?
Communication is a bridge of love between men and women. Women must be clever-clever in saying that not misunderstood by men. Like the phrase "You do not understand" that the woman was actually meaning "You do not understand that I currently do not require completion."
Meanwhile, in the words of the man's ears as punishment stating he was not able to overcome the problem mate. It would be better if before telling her laments a woman says "Right now I just want to share my feelings. This would make me feel better. "By the sentence of a man is ready to listen without feeling frustrated because she can not help solve the problem.
Do not forget to say thank you to your partner because he has been pleased to spend time to listen to your complaints. Appreciation to him for the difficult things he had done (listening without comment or hearing negative feedback from her partner) would make him feel happy and he would be willing to do it again on another occasion.
Be careful in the use of words and tone of voice, especially when communicating with a partner, because the same sentence when spoken with different tones will give a different meaning. Do not reached the bridge of communication between the two of you cut off just because a word is translated differently.
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